so lindsay meets mr.x for the first time while they went on a road trip with friends. she's the kind of girl that will play the damsel in distress thing to perfection, just so she can attract her prey. mr.x seems to be the kind that won't fall for that, but being the man that he is, he went along for the ride.
so they arrive to their destination. she has laid out the game plan for a few hours in the car. now it's time for action! but what lindsay fails to recognize is that mr.x is a master at this. and she will be his prey. they flirt, they talk, they start a "friendship". something that lindsay easily turned into a "relationship". this relationship was one-sided. yes, mr.x gives her the attention she wants, but on his own terms.
now, a lot of women fall for this. they feel the need to have some sort of companionship, even if it's for a few hours. they will go to extremes to show the man that they care about him. and they get blinded by the affection he's giving. this is when we-i must admit i have done this maybe once in my life-forget about the real world and our world revolves around that one man. why not get a puppy instead?
for the people in lindsay's social circle-she was in a relationship with mr.x. for the people that really knew them both-she was the one "obsessed". an obsession that she created herself. and a heartache that she brought on herself. many people close to them both, advised her not to take that step. but lindsay was in love. she needed that to feel complete and become a whole woman.
what do you think about one-sided relationships? most women fall for this and act like complete fools, while the entire world is looking at them like that-FOOLS. who's at fault here? the person that falls in love unconditionally-or the person that plays the game (knowing they have shown and stated they're not in it for a serious long term relationship)?
of course, lindsay and mr.x's "relationship" was short-lived. everyone with a sane mind knew it from the start. and who's to blame? lindsay.
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Although I'm tempted to say the one who's playing games is at fault, I cant wholeheartedly, because I've been the one who was in that kind of relationship. Giving my all to someone who barely even knew I existed except when he needed something. So I'm going to have to say it's 50/50. There should be enough communication as ADULTS to draw lines and figure out what's going on instead of 'just going along with it'.
agreed ladeeb! but we also have to act like adults-although i know love blinds us!
Lindsey was in love, but just on her own. I think everyone has fallen into the one way, I think he's into me too, but we are to blind at the moment to see what really was going on.
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